Parenting Guide
The Most Important Things Parents Can Say to Their Children: 10 Phrases That Strengthen Our Bond with Kids
Strengthen your bond with your children using these 10 powerful statements. Show them daily that they are loved and valued just as they are.
In family life, there are often many reminders, tips, and appointments. However, children primarily need phrases that show them love, trust, and appreciation. These ten messages strengthen the bond, encourage them, and give your child the feeling: I am right, important, and loved.
Loving words and gestures work for them like fertilizer for plants: they help them thrive and grow up with confidence. That's why it's beneficial to say at least one of these ten phrases to your children every day.
I love you
These words, perhaps accompanied by a kiss on the forehead, are a beautiful way to start the day or a farewell before bedtime in the evening. And if you say them each time with a smile on your lips and in your heart, they will never lose their value.
You are good just as you are
Being a child can sometimes be quite tough! As children continuously compare themselves to their friends, older siblings, or parents, they realize day by day what they still need to learn. It feels good to hear regularly that their parents love them just the way they are.
I am always here for you
Especially when daily life is tightly scheduled, children need to know that they can still come to their parents with their questions, experiences, and worries. Perhaps you could set aside a quarter of an hour before bedtime to talk with your child about their day!
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Shall we craft, paint, or read together?
For children, it’s nice when they are not always the ones wanting to play with mom or dad, but when parents also signal that they want to spend time with their child. If you have multiple children, it’s important that each child gets their own “mom time” and “dad time.”
I trust you
When children know that their parents believe in them and trust them, it greatly boosts their self-confidence. For you, this means: don’t control everything – instead, have faith in your child.
It’s not a big deal
Making mistakes is part of life – and winning isn’t everything! You should regularly communicate this to your child. Most children are hard enough on themselves about their mistakes, so parental phrases like “You should have known that” or “I told you so!” are counterproductive. Instead, show your child that you love them even if they accidentally broke the cereal bowl or got a 5 on a dictation.
Come into my arms
Cuddling, hugging, holding each other – positive physical contact is immensely important for children: it supports development, stimulates growth processes, and cuddle sessions provide comfort and relaxation. Additionally, physical contact releases the happiness hormone dopamine and the bonding hormone oxytocin.
I like it when you…
... remember to clear the table by yourself.